How To Learn To Admire Your Husband?
We, women, more often focus our attention not on what life has already given to us, but on what we do not have. While learning how to thank life for everything we have is the only way leading to happiness. After all, if you just lose what you take for granted (health, love, loved ones, friends), you immediately begin to appreciate it as a great happiness.
But while we all have it – it is very difficult to resist not starting to take offense at our relatives for any little things, blaming someone for our problems. And this concentration on the shortcomings of others is gradually becoming a habit.
Most often, the objects of constant female complaints and resentments are … husbands. But why are women more willing to complain about their husbands than, on the contrary, keep silent about their shortcomings and emphasize solely dignity?
Often, the reason lies in the parents’ family, when from childhood the girl observes this attitude of the mother to her father: “You have ruined my whole life! “, Etc.
This habitual behavior is already an adult woman can broadcast in her family. While happiness is also a habit, when a person is able to find only good around himself and enjoy it. In this sense, every person can become happy.
Female happiness depends on how much a woman knows how to notice in a man his strengths (up to the smallest detail) and learn to appreciate it for that. Of course, if your husband changes you, drinks or engages in assault, then the phrase “woman’s happiness” initially loses its meaning.
It is about families where the spouses understand the importance of their union, but can not become happier in marriage because of the elementary lack of certain knowledge and skills – nowhere else is taught how to build a family.
Meanwhile, this is a whole science, requiring tremendous patience and tact – first of all from the woman. For example, you gave a list of products to your man, and he returned from a store with one bread with the words “there was not what you asked for.” You can, of course, immediately criticize it to the nines, but you can make a “move with a knight”.
For example, to depict on his face the joy of the fact that the husband, in principle, went to the store and be sure to express the hope that he will continue to please you. And unobtrusively find out why the store did not have the right products (maybe they were expired) and what can be done in this case – which stores (markets) are near where the products are cheaper, etc.
The success stories and the numbers speak very clearly
You, in turn, when the husband the next time will run around the shops – take time for yourself (take a bath or do a manicure), why your man will be much more willing to fulfill your requests, because his home is waiting for a beautiful and loving woman.
And it is possible that later it will turn out that your husband is a natural breadwinner, who can save and even prepare himself perfectly! Perhaps your husband does not know how to fix the old closet better, but he will try to make money to buy a new one. Will try for you!
Perhaps he nails without enthusiasm, but his colleagues respect him at work, because he is an excellent organizer and just a decent person. And that, in fact, it is for this you once loved him: for honesty, sincerity, kindness and so on.
But after all our life consists of small things, so it is so important to be able to notice just pleasant little things. And for this you just need to learn to look at a person with new eyes – like when you first met: with admiration, with surprise, with delight – because everything is new and interesting for you.
After all, when we admire someone – it is so stimulating and a fruitful activity!
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