The word ‘beautiful’ doesn’t necessarily mean outer beauty. In fact, it’s more important how you are on the inside. I’m sure you’ve met many ‘beautiful’ people, yet their mean and hurtful character makes them completely ugly.
Seriously, what is it that makes a man handsome or a woman beautiful? What is it that sets someone above another on the appeal scale? I’m talking about snap impressions and perceptions here. “Beauty is how you feel inside, and it reflects in your eyes. It is not something physical.” Sophia Loren.
The general topic of attractiveness is important to members of virtually every society and attractive people are recognized universally as being appealing, even across wildly varying cultures… This means that there is a measurable standard for beauty and what is generally found most desirable. But, what exactly is it?
But beauty is not the only thing that makes people attractive. There are many people out there with slightly better than average looks who are a magnet for adoration. Think hard about the attractive people you know. You’ll find that most aren’t movie star material and you likely know some who are beautiful on the outside but not so attractive once you get to know them. Incredibly attractive people make it their business to stay attractive regardless of how life shines upon them. Here’s how they do it, along with suggestions how you can be more attractive as well.
The truth is, physical beauty is subjective. And even if someone perfectly matches your ideal of physical perfection, their looks will eventually fade. What endure are the qualities, passions, and habits we nurture.
That’s what makes us beautiful—there is something beautiful in everyone. If you’ve done any of the following lately, you are absolutely beautiful:
Intelligence. Far above scale. Every moment spent with them is absolutely worthy and empowering.
Voice. A deep and calm voice with sense of realism is far above looks. Absolutely irresistible!
Smile. As the quote goes, “I’ve never seen a smiling face that was not beautiful.”
They listen. Many people are preoccupied with themselves and what’s on their own mind. So when someone genuinely shows interest in another and listens, she immediately strengthens her connection with that person.
They take care of themselves.It’s difficult to be around people who neglect themselves. It’s often a clear sign of low self-esteem. Incredibly attractive people hold themselves in high regard. They are strong in self-confidence and care about their bodies. They enjoy life and want to be around for as long as possible.
They take care of others. A generous spirit is a huge attractor. Incredibly attractive people know that selfishness is ugliest when it’s on the physically fortunate. There is something magical about genuine altruism.
Help a child feel good about him or herself.
Tell someone what you appreciate about them, even if you feel vulnerable.
Forgive someone without needing to hear the words, “I’m sorry.”
Sense of realism: Being with person like this bring back all your senses to real world instantaneously.
Dignity. No matter how bad situation is never letting yourself down.
Passion. When someone talks with sparkle in their eyes about something they love!
Reliability. One on whom you can always count.
Give yourself the same courtesy—focus on the good you’ve done, not the mistakes you’ve made.
Keep an open mind instead of sticking with a judgment or assumption.
Imagine a world where people know peace, and do one small thing to create it.
Honor the values that matter to you. Showing integrity is the first step to feeling good about yourself.
Be the voice of optimism when the people around you need it badly.
Show humility when your accomplishments would make it easy to stand above people.
Measure a person by their best moments, not their worst.
Forget yourself for a minute and do nothing but listen to someone who needs it.
Accept and love yourself, just as you are in this moment.
Thats all Immediately pops in my mind when I hear a word beautiful!